tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2998392453589309507.post7998816933910913047..comments2024-03-22T21:12:45.711-07:00Comments on Mom, the Intern: Potpourri.Jenna Footehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06053037054553243481noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2998392453589309507.post-2019089373906499492011-07-29T00:01:59.652-07:002011-07-29T00:01:59.652-07:00Blah! I need to quit searching your blog for vbac ...Blah! I need to quit searching your blog for vbac insight because my doctor thinks I'm the one who doesn't beat the odds and I fear these things will happen to me. I'm beginning to think child bearing isn't for me because the more I research it the more it freaks me out! But I feel like I need to keep researching it to be prepared for all possibilities because my baby is 3 months and my head is still stuck in the hospital replaying everything that I can remember over the course of the 7 days that I was there. I don't think I could handle something more traumatic so I need to be prepared!Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08811530359842264063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2998392453589309507.post-60484573218818934972010-07-21T12:56:56.993-07:002010-07-21T12:56:56.993-07:00You are an excellent writer. I like knowing there ...You are an excellent writer. I like knowing there are friends with me at Camp Depression. Maybe you should write a post about that. You have a talent with writing that is all about keeping it real but not all doom and gloom. I love that I can relate to your posts.Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09791030022876359788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2998392453589309507.post-51172518462368345042010-07-08T14:50:22.317-07:002010-07-08T14:50:22.317-07:00Jenna you're making me feel better for not get...Jenna you're making me feel better for not getting my VBAC. It's just not in the cards for me because I'm too small. If I would have a VBAC, it would tear me apart. You and my mom are the only ones I know of that had a horrible long recovery after a vaginal birth. It was my mom's first child and her doctor let her go almost a month over due! That's an eye popper for you! He was almost 10 pounds and my mom was just as small as me and she ended up tearing all the way up to her rectum. She had no sensation to go #2 for about 3 months. She had to wear granny diapers. Since that birth she had 6 more kids and all was well so don't give up all together on another VBAC. My mom never had a c-section so she didn't know how easy it can be. They're really not bad. Just like you said, less painful but longer recovery in most cases. <br />I'm glad I came across your blog. I hope you remember me from the North Park 2nd Ward. We had our first kids like one or two months apart. I'm not a crazy stalker. Love the blog. Mine is mthompsonfam.blogspt.com if you will like to keep up with us. <br /><br />EliseThompson Familyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11313140331473803029noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2998392453589309507.post-71275564274367253752010-07-07T18:19:36.140-07:002010-07-07T18:19:36.140-07:00I spoke to my sister who had a V-bac after two c-s...I spoke to my sister who had a V-bac after two c-sections (which is unheard of now).<br />She said intercourse was painful for more than 6 months afterward. Her case, just like yours was the exception not the rule. She did say that the two other deliveries she did after the v-bac were so worth going vaginal again. She didn't have any problems with recovery like the first vaginal birth.<br />I must say that I think you should try for an un-medicated birth. I know that sounds crazy, especially after all your trauma with this last delivery, but her me out.<br />When you don't have an epidural, you can tell how hard you are pushing and if you can push how you are told you won't tear, which cuts out the problem of scar tissue. Also, women who have epidurals usually push so hard for so long that they do have that prolapse issues. (after reading your post edit, I realize your pushing long and hard for a long time wasn't the issue here, but it is for many births.) Also, with a posterior baby and no epidural, you can get on your hands and knees while in labor and that will almost always flip the baby around to the proper position. <br />And I must say, the recovery is AMAZING!! For me, since I've done both an epidural for delivery and el-naturel I can honestly say that going from feeling nothing (cause of the epidural) to feeling everything (once it has worn off) is HORRIBLE!! But with Miles delivery I had total control and was on cloud 9 after pushing him out, all those endorphins kicked in and it was just an amazing feeling. <br />I have been taking anti-depressants for almost 9 years - through all three pregnancies, and even after Amelia's delivery, which is part of the reason I didn't realize I had postpartum, I didn't think it was possible while taking a medicine. But since my taking medicine created my new "normal" the added postpartum threw me for a loop. Depression sucks. Sorry you are having a hard time. It will get better!-Special Mothertivity-https://www.blogger.com/profile/18203617582584741409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2998392453589309507.post-11263546268923438422010-07-07T17:06:19.375-07:002010-07-07T17:06:19.375-07:00Jenna, this post had me laughing so hard and cryin...Jenna, this post had me laughing so hard and crying from laughing so hard. "Special" hug", "Knock boots", "Wonka, wonka," and "Kroll the Warrior King" -- you would be a great stand-up comedienne! <br />I am sorry, though, for all the pain you are enduring. Though I've never experienced the "miracle of childbirth," I was, however, severely depressed for about 10 years before a doctor saw all the symptoms in me and started me on an anti-depressant. (I've been taking Elavil since 1992.) Soon after I began taking it, Granny told me that several people told her that they noticed how happy and more outgoing I seemed. And I was!<br /><br />Anyhoo, I always love reading your blog! Keep up the awesome work on keeping us informed about your Hoo-Hah. LOLSamanthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05323562610621143140noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2998392453589309507.post-72417086642964880922010-07-07T08:27:59.219-07:002010-07-07T08:27:59.219-07:00I know you may thinkg it's TMI but this is the...I know you may thinkg it's TMI but this is the kind of stuff i want to know seeing that this is what i want to try next time. This is the kind of info you don't get. So hearing it from you is great. I do hope the next one goes a bit smoother. Did Dr. Ladyparts say anything about the next time you birth as in what she recomemnds??? You know just seeing that you had a few issues?Billy and Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00536761874531946274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2998392453589309507.post-72713181834960817662010-07-07T06:26:20.038-07:002010-07-07T06:26:20.038-07:00It's amazing what women go through for their b...It's amazing what women go through for their babies. No matter how bad it is though, it's so worth it. Carson is a handsome little guy. I'm sorry your VBAC had so many complications, I hope you heal up soon. C section or normal birth: it's hard. I had no health issues before I had Tommy and Tristan, and now I'm going in for my second surgery next week. Gallstones, lovely! haha Feel better Jenna, I know how you feel. I too have had depression, especially after giving birth.Brittneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12745911419036502099noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2998392453589309507.post-68969302685544710522010-07-06T22:42:15.760-07:002010-07-06T22:42:15.760-07:00So...I have a question. Did Dr Ladyparts suggest w...So...I have a question. Did Dr Ladyparts suggest what your next kiddo should be? c section vs vaginal birth? Just wondering. Maybe it wasnt even in the agenda since Little Man is only 3 months. haha. I seriously still have a hard time knowing that my babies all have to be born via c section because I really wanted that VBAC. But I am grateful my babies can be born safely...think about if I wouldve been having kids 20 years ago. <br />Thanks for sharing. I dont mind your honesty. . :)Suzanne Maughanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01699592381901194159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2998392453589309507.post-78240628704810502132010-07-06T20:38:49.470-07:002010-07-06T20:38:49.470-07:00I think it's safe to say we all love how strai...I think it's safe to say we all love how straight forward you are. Especially those of us who haven't been through those things yet since the anticipation is unbarable sometimes and the fears are all too real. The more I learn about the subject the less afraid I am. I am modest to a fault I think and the thought of pushing a child out of me in anybody's presence other than my husband's freaks me out. When I read what you have to say it gives me a boost of confidence! And although what you're going through sounds less than pleasant it makes me feel more prepared for what could happen and understand that it's not normal and to see a doctor. I hope you feel better! I had no idea you dealt with depression. I didn't know you that well in high school, but I never would have thought you did. I'm glad things are getting better for you, although when things are bad they make for interesting blog posts! :)Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08811530359842264063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2998392453589309507.post-66139273470627332802010-07-06T18:04:42.609-07:002010-07-06T18:04:42.609-07:00Thanks for the honesty Jenna. I also just love yo...Thanks for the honesty Jenna. I also just love your euphemisms.Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09350540429671782844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2998392453589309507.post-22685116330061778102010-07-06T16:52:07.024-07:002010-07-06T16:52:07.024-07:00Kroll the Warrior King, LOL!!!! You just made me s...Kroll the Warrior King, LOL!!!! You just made me spit juice out my nose, LOVE that movie!!!:)<br /><br />I'm glad the estrogen cream is helping with the stretching and the funks, you're right its nothing to be ashamed of! I'm glad that you are able to be so candid, I think that's a huge help for others out there that may be going through the same stuff and are too afraid to talk about it. I do the same with my Endo stuff... I figure if I help at least 1 person out there, its well worth the TMI!!! You rock!<br /><br />Your little man is getting so big and SO handsome! Love the rolls, looks very scrumptious indeed! ;)Alexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06157457008531140248noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2998392453589309507.post-6694748231465608462010-07-06T16:38:32.816-07:002010-07-06T16:38:32.816-07:00I have been reading your blog for a while and I ha...I have been reading your blog for a while and I have felt creepy about wanting to comment before because... well... I don't know you. But! I had to comment on this post. I loved it. I am pregnant with my first and I am not letting myself think about how this baby is... going to come out of me or the after math. Thank you for not sugar coating it. I guess I have to start preparing myself mentally for birth and the after effects sometime and this post helped. Thank goodness for Dr. Ladyparts!Emily Zoe Halehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01868998242070461390noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2998392453589309507.post-90840973306579383682010-07-06T15:18:22.980-07:002010-07-06T15:18:22.980-07:00Jenna, you rock.
Love you!Jenna, you rock.<br /><br />Love you!Jeannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14988039715218055189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2998392453589309507.post-34484400876645203962010-07-06T15:16:31.231-07:002010-07-06T15:16:31.231-07:00Thanks for your post Jenna! My Docs keep asking me...Thanks for your post Jenna! My Docs keep asking me if I'm considering a VBAC and after your story I absolutely want to stick with a c-section! Thanks for telling it like it is. I hope Dr Ladyparts can help fix your puzzle pieces. Love ya-Amy @MoMommahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05037461565431602837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2998392453589309507.post-60831614552072329992010-07-06T14:09:37.755-07:002010-07-06T14:09:37.755-07:00I love love love reading your blog. I am so sorry ...I love love love reading your blog. I am so sorry you had such a terrible recovery with your vbac :( I remember healing and feeling all better and getting the OK from the dr and all excited and thinking OUCHHH. It took me about 8 weeks or so before I could finally somewhat comfortably be intimate... I think I was tricked because the outside of my body was healed but my 3rd degree, 18 stitches episiotomy was stil healing the 3rd layer or something. Hopefully things heal fast for you!Beth and John Schaubhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01076637283053297772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2998392453589309507.post-51981006426163366932010-07-06T13:46:52.998-07:002010-07-06T13:46:52.998-07:00Wow, you poor thing. I have never heard of a recov...Wow, you poor thing. I have never heard of a recovery being that awful from a vaginal birth! Mine have both been pretty good except the lovely infection I got "down there" after my second. Don't let it getcha down. Just remember it's highly unusual and next time it will be better!Alisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03499476146413501541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2998392453589309507.post-53881604737491963702010-07-06T13:12:54.784-07:002010-07-06T13:12:54.784-07:00I sometimes create similar posts in my head but I&...I sometimes create similar posts in my head but I'm too wimpy to post them. Thanks for not sugarcoating it. I enjoy your straight-forwardness. :) <br /><br />And here's to recovery and MUCH better baby-birthing experiences in the future!Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13276865437367533815noreply@blogger.com